Roommate Opportunities

At some point in our lives, many of us will need assisted living. This may mean we move in with one of our children. After years of independence, we may find ourselves making numerous adjustments. Consider the following questions before making a final decision:

• Have I exhausted all my options to continue living independently?
  • Live-in help
  • Visiting home nurse
  • Part-time domestic help
  • Senior apartment complex
  • Meals-on-Wheels

• Do my children have room for me? (A private bedroom is needed, if possible.)
• Do I have to relocate to another city?
• Will I have to leave my friends and church family?
• Can I afford to contribute financially to help with expenses? If so, will I have enough personal funds left to meet my needs?
• Can I contribute my services to help the family if necessary?
• Am I compatible with all members of the family?
• Can I fit into the schedule and lifestyle of the family?
• Can I maintain wmy basic independence?
• Will I be allowed to surround myself with my own bedroom furniture, pictures, etc.?
• Will I have access to privacy during the day and evenings?

Pray for God’s direction as you ponder these questions. Discuss your desires with your children or other family members. Put your decisions in writing and inform others of the location of that document.